SG Ruminations Vol 3 by Sabari Ganesh (top 10 motivational books .TXT) 📖

is a demon; one who allows others to suffer when he too is suffering is a lowlife; he who takes every effort to remove the obstacles and sufferings of others in spite of his own misfortune is divine. SGR139

The real celebration of Deepavali is not in bursting crackers, eating sweets and watching movies; but in taking every effort in our limited capacity to bring about a positive change in the lives of the suffering and the needy. Service executed in the good of humanity termed charity, is precisely the substratum and crux of every activity as decreed by Sanathana Dharma. Deepavali is the day of celebrating one's own yearlong efforts of charity.

Incidentally, Deepavali is celebrated on the day of Amavasya - the new moon day. As decreed by the Sanathana Dharma, Amavasya is the day when one offers food to deceased ancestors every month in a year - the best form of charity that aims to bring solace to one's ancestors wherever they may be; in whatever form. Deepavali is the anniversary celebration of the efforts of charity of every human being within one's own limited capacity. Prudence is in celebrating this anniversary of charity by focusing our festive spending on efforts that benefit humanity.

Hail Deepavali!

SGR140

நிறைவான சுதந்திரம் என்பது தெவையில்லாதவற்றை தவிர்ப்பதில்தான் இருக்கிறது!

SGR141

ஆசைகள் இறந்து மனம் சுடுகாடு ஆனால், அந்த ருத்ர பூமியில், பரமசிவனின் ஆனந்த தாண்டவ காட்சி கிடைக்க பெரும்.

SGR142

திருமணம் எனும் நிகழ்வால்; பெற்றோரையும், உடன் பிறந்தோரையும், உற்றோரையும் விடுத்து, தன் கணவனே கதி என நம்பி, கற்பு நெறியில் சிறந்து விளங்கும் மனைவி எனும் குலமகளை அவமதிப்பதும், உதாசீனப்படுத்துவதும், மிக பெரிய பாபம் ஆகும். அது அவளை மணந்து கொண்ட ஆடவனின் சகல நற்கலைகளையும் தேய்வுற செய்து, மறைத்து, அழித்துவிடும்.

SGR143

எந்த ஒரு குடும்பத்திற்கும் அதன் ஆணிவேர் அந்த குடும்பத்தில் வாழ வந்த மருமகளே! அதுவும் கூட அவளுக்கு ஒரு மகள் பிறக்கும் வரை தான்; பின்பு அந்த குமரிப்பெண் வளர்க்க படும் விதத்தில் தான் அந்த குடும்பத்தின் மான - அவமானங்கள் நிர்ணயிக்கப்படுகின்றன.

SGR144

The ability to identify ability is more important an ability than any ability in a professional aspiring to become a leadership material.

SGR145

The greatest folly of mankind is the belief and notion that happiness and peace are superposable. The substratum of desire is the acceptance of the psychologically deficient stature of the mind. The presence of emotions indicate the bubbling of desires in the mind.

Events that occur in this world affect any individual as long as one claims psychological proximity based on the factors, Space and Time. Peace is attainable when one is able to detach the intellect from the thought of performance and possession. The limiting factor - Space is transcended the moment one accomplishes detachment - 'Horizon'!

An ordinary human being is one who remains relative in attitude, articulation and action to external stimulus. Absoluteness is the nature of a person self-centred with wisdom in spiritual sense. Surrendering to a singular form of a GURU or GOD would stabilise one's focus and thoughts on absolute reality; resultant is eternal peace.

SGR146

In an organisation, real respect is always earned; and never depends on designations or authority. A pragmatic professional with the ability to deploy and utilise available skills; capable of avoiding conflicts becomes a successful leader. The focus and objective of every human pursuit is not success, but peace; for efforts should rest naturally upon attainment of the objective!

Being passionate is not a merit. It is an indication of one's psychologically deficient stature. One must perform activities with detachment; not passion. The vital prerequisite to attain peace is to overcome passion - be it for anything; any reason! Right means will alone lead to right ends.

SGR147

குற்றம் பார்க்கின் சுற்றம் இல்லை!

குற்றம் உள்ள சுற்றம் தேவை இல்லை!!

Better alone than in a regretful accompany.

SGR148

Dare to admit mistakes honestly and politely; is the only way to learn and upgrade skills.

The blatant fact is the reality that the result of any activity or effort is beyond human comprehension!

Hence the inevitability of a structured process; nevertheless the status quo on the uncertainty of results remain.

SGR149

A calm and