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HESITATION IS THE ENEMY.
Hesitation allows the moment to pass, the opportunity to be lost, the enemy to get the upper hand. Hesitation turns into cowardice. It stops us from moving forward, from taking initiative, from executing what we know we must.
Hesitation defeats us. So we must defeat it.
- Jocko Willink
Lead.
Step up. Be the one who people look to.
Absorb the impactâand the negativity.
Draw fireâyes: Draw fire
How do I deal with setbacks, failures, delays, defeats, or other disasters? I actually have a fairly simple way of dealing with these situations, summed up in one word: âGood.â
This is something that one of my direct subordinates, one of the guys who worked for me, a guy who
became one of my best friends, pointed out. He would pull me aside with some major problem or some issue that was going on, and heâd say, âBoss, weâve got this thing, this situation, and itâs going terribly wrong.â
I would look at him and Iâd say:âGood.â
And finally, one day, he was telling me about something that was going off the rails, and as soon as he finished explaining it to me, he said, âI already know what youâre going to say.
And I asked, âWhat am I going to say?â
And he said, âYouâre going to say: âGood.ââ
He continued, âThatâs what you always say. When something is wrong or going bad, you just look at me and say, âGood.ââ
And I said, âWell. I mean it. Because that is
how I operate.â So I explained to him that when things are going bad, thereâs going to be some good that will come from it.
Oh, mission got canceled? Good. We can focus
on another one.
Didnât get the new high-speed gear we wanted?
Good. We can keep it simple.
Didnât get promoted? Good. More time to get better.
Didnât get funded? Good. We own more of the company.
Didnât get the job you wanted? Good. Go out, gain more experience, and build a better resume.
Got injured? Good. Needed a break from training
Got tapped out? Good. Itâs better to tap out in training than to tap out on the street.
Got beat? Good. We learned.
Unexpected problems? Good. We have the opportunity to figure out a solution
Finally: if you can say the word âgood,â then guess what?
It means youâre still alive.
It means youâre still breathing.
And if youâre still breathing, that means youâve still got some fight left in you.
So get up, dust off,
reload, recalibrate, re-engageâ
and go out on the attack
So. Let us cry no more. Let us mourn no more.
Let us rememberâbut let us not dwell âŠ
Instead: Let us laugh and love and let us embrace and venerate everything that life is and every opportunity it gives us.
Let us LIVEâfor those WHO live no more.
Let us live to honor them!
In combat, focus comes pretty easily because the battle is right in front of your face.
You have no choice but to focus.
But, sometimes, in day-to-day life, you can lose track of the long-term goal. It fades from your vision. It slips from your mind.
WRONG
I want that long-term goal to be so embedded in my mind, that I never lose sight of it.
EVER
And the little tasks and projects and short-term goals that you tackle need to lead toward strategic victoryâwinning the long war.
But we want results
NOW.
We want the shortcut to the winnerâs podium.
We need the instant gratification.
And when we donât get the short-term glory
sometimes we lose sight of those long-term goals. They fade. We lose focus.
So we stop the daily tasks and the daily disciplines that will allow us to achieve our goals. And a day slips by. And then another day. And a day turns into a week and a week into a year.
And you look up in six weeks or six months or six years âŠ
And youâve made no progress:
None
In fact: The only thing valuable in regret is the lesson you learned.
The knowledge you gained.
But walking around filled with regret gets you nothing.
So. Learn and move on.
Donât let regret beat you down. Donât be a slave to regret.
Everything is in our head, our head make us ANXIOUS, happy, nervous and Sad. The problem is that this is the way we are wired, we need a new way to get wired. People tell BULLSHIT and once you start giving fuck about this bullshit you are doom as fuck.
That's the problem... believing in it!
We get brainwashed, manipulated... always face negativity... The problem is that we don't act upon the things we desire... we leave the thoughts aside and we take massive action.
That's what we need!
STOP GIVING FUCK ABOUT IT
STOP FEELING GUILTY FOR THINGS YOU HAVE DONE
(Explanation: I am going to explain it in a very easy way... don't take life so serious... You are supposed to have joy, happiness, laugher not SADNESS and anger and tiredness... DEPRESSION.
Guilty for what?
You can't change it... just accept it)
STOP SAYING LATER
STOP THE DENIAL
STOP EXCUSING ACTION
STOP EXCUSES
STOP SELF-DEFEATING THOUGHTS
STOP LIVING IN YOUR HEAD
(Explanation: Probably there is NO one to explain you the dynamics, but I am here... your mom fucked you over with "Rape", "Pedophiles", "Diseases", "Syndromes"... and all dark witch craft.. and she fucked your brain... now it's time to live this wired way aside and install a new system.
No More denial of changing or action, thoughts are SUPPOSED to be driven by motivation not by desperation.
You have been in your head 1000 times... nothing more than a cynical... hell.. crazy circle of mad thoughts spinning around..)
NO.
Let it teach you. Let it make you better. Let the fear of regret fuel youâto take actionâ
todayânow
Take action now to become a person not filled with regret,
but a person filled with knowledge and strength and power
and life.
NOT FEELING IT
How do I handle those days when Iâm just not âfeeling itâ?
Those days when I am tired or worn out or just sick of the grind âŠ
What do I do on those days?
I GO ANYWAY. I GET IT DONE
Even if I am just going through the motionsâ
I GO THROUGH THE MOTIONS.
Donât really want to work out? I work out.
Donât really want to hammer on a project? I hammer on the project.
Donât really want to get up and get out of bed?
I GET UP AND GET OUT OF BED.
Nowâthese could be signals that you need some time offâand those signals might be right
BUTâdonât take today off. Wait until tomorrow. Donât give in to the immediate gratification that is whispering in your ear.
SHUT THAT DOWN. DO NOT LISTEN.
Instead: Go through the motions. Lift the weights. Sprint the hill. Work on the project. GET OUT OF BED.
I donât like procrastination. But if you feel like you need a breakâthat is one thing you should procrastinate
Fear of failure.
Fear of failure can keep you from taking the risk.
It can leave you sitting there, paralyzed into not taking action.
And that is obviously bad
But: I donât want you to overcome fear of failure.
I want you to be afraid of failure.
FEAR OF FAILURE IS GOOD.
Fear of failure will keep you up at night, planning, rehearsing, going over contingencies.
Fear of failure will keep you training hard.
Fear of failure will stop you from cutting corners
Fear of failure will keep you working, thinking, striving, and relentlessly trying to be more prepared for battle.
So I want you to be afraid of failing. I fear failure.
But more importantâ
I want you to be horrifiedâterrifiedâ
of sitting on the sidelines and doing nothing.
That is what I want you to be afraid of:
Waking up in six days or six weeks or six
years or SIXTY YEARS and being no closer to your goal ⊠You have made NO PROGRESS.
That is the horror. That is the nightmare. That is what you really need to be afraid of: Being stagnant.
So.
GET UP. AND. GO.
Take the risk, take the gamble, take the first step. Take action.
And donât let another day.
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