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information that she’s giving you.


Many men listen the wrong way.


When she’s talking, they’re nodding their head the whole time – all while thinking about the next question to ask.


That’s a big NO-NO.


Women can see that you’re not listening and that you’re nervous.


This kills attraction.


Instead, do the following.


Listen to what she says. Don’t think of what to ask next.


While you’re listening, look in her eyes and build a picture of her—a picture that you continue building based on the information that she’s giving you.


Once she’s done talking, KEEP EYE CONTACT and think of your next comment or question.


Yes, you read that right: You only start thinking of what to say AFTER she’s done talking, and you do it while you keep eye contact.


This will leave a natural pause in the conversation. In that pause, you will be thinking of what to say.


The fact that you keep eye contact while there is a pause (in which you are thinking of what to say) builds sexual tension.


This is my favorite conversation technique, because it builds sexual tension so incredibly naturally.


No need for flashy techniques or games. Just natural eye contact and a pause!


 ConclusionConversations are a vital part of dating.


Without a conversation, you won’t be able to finish all the steps in the dating process.


Most men are too nervous during conversations because they’ve already decided that they want the woman. Women feel that and become uncomfortable themselves.


The first step in having a great conversation with women is to develop a set of requirements that you want them to meet.


Furthermore, most men don’t “get” women.


They look for tricks and pick-up lines when they try to learn how to improve their dating life.


They don’t realize that all the tricks in the world aren’t going to help them if they don’t know how to have a NATURAL, free-flowing conversation that builds both attraction and a connection.


Use the six steps outlined in this article during your next date. You’ll be amazed at the results you get!


One of the major milestones on the first date is to get the first kiss.


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The First Date To First Kiss Package includes:


1. Seven Hacks To Never Run Out Of Things To Say: How To Keep The Conversation Going For Hours - so that you’ll have plenty of time to escalate physically.


2. The Touch Guide: How To Go From Social To Sexual In No Time – even if you’ve never touched a woman before.


3. The Kiss Test: How To Tell If She’s Ready To Be Kissed – even if you can’t read an ounce of body language.


4. A secret bonus.

 

 

 

 

P.S.: Start saying all type of shit... stop with excusing yourself about when and how and why to say it... just go and say it...

 

Could be like

 

You: You suck biatch 

 

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You: You are a cutie

 

 

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You: You are boring

 

 

 

or whatever

 

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Just say what first comes in your mind... no overthinking game... anymore....

 

 

0 your mind

 

 

 

 

Special Thanks to Nick Neeson

 

 

 

 

 

7 Conversation Starters That Work Like A Charm

 

 

 

 

By the worlds #1 dating coach for Introverted Men - Nick Neeson.
 What’s the number-one reason introverted men don’t succeed with women the way they want to and dream about?


It’s because they don’t even try!


In fact, tell me if this sounds familiar



When it comes to approaching and starting conversations with women, most introverts shiver and shake and sweat at the mere thought of it.

 

 

 

They worry about getting tongue-tied or disturbing her, or they compare themselves to better-looking guys in their heads.


In short, they fear rejection.


I get it.


If walking up to a woman isn’t something that you’re used to, it can feel like too much of a challenge. To some, even an impossiblechallenge.


If that’s the case, I want you to know it’s not your fault.


And you’re not alone.


Most introverted men have issues getting comfortable with the idea of striking up conversations with women they don’t know.


After more than 20 years of coaching introverted men, I discovered that certain approaches work like magic.


They make approaching beautiful women and chatting them up so much easier and risk-free.


If my students could learn them, I know for sure YOU can too.


With that said, here are my top seven road-tested word-for-word conversation starters to get you incredible results approaching women.


 1. The Street Approach.Street approach
This one works great when you see a woman walking on the street.


Don’t approach her from the front, but first walk past her and then do a 180.


Start walking behind her, then gently put your fingers on her shoulder.


It should be as soft as a little tropical bird landing on her shoulder.


She’ll turn around, and voila! You can deliver the next opener:


You: â€œExcuse me, I’d like to tell you something.”


Her: â€œYes?”


You: â€œI literally just saw you and I think you have a very nice
 energy
 and I wanted to come and say hi
 So, hi.”


As you can see, it’s a compliment, but it’s a low investment compliment. I said, â€œYou have a very nice energy.” I didn’t say, â€œYou are SOOO BEAUTIFUL”.


Low investment compliments work much better than over-the-top compliments.


 2. The Coffee Shop Approach.Coffee shop approach
Just like the street, this is a perfect venue to approach women because of its serendipity effect.


All women have dreamed about being approached in serendipity venues. It’s a fantasy they have from romantic comedies.


Here’s how to do it.


You just walk up to her and you say the exact same thing as you would on the street.


You: â€œHi, excuse me. I’d like to tell you something.”


Her: â€œYes?”


You: â€œI just noticed you from over there and I think you have a very nice energy. And I wanted to come and say hi. So, hi.”


As you can see, it’s the same opener, but here’s what’s crucial to do IMMEDIATELY after that opener.


You have to immediately let her know that you won’t stay there if she doesn’t want you to.


The reason you do this is because the situation is different from the street.


On the street, she can just walk away if she feels uncomfortable, so there’s less pressure.


But in a coffee shop, she can’t just walk away. I mean, she’s sitting there drinking something. Maybe she’s waiting for her boyfriend.


If you just keep talking to her in that situation and she doesn’t like it, she’ll feel very uncomfortable because she can’t just get up and leave.


Therefore, you immediately say the following after your opener: â€œHey, listen, if you feel uncomfortable with me talking to you here, just tell me and I’ll leave. Are you ok?


By doing that, you give her a way out if she wants one.


You also build attraction by doing so. That’s because you showed social intelligence.


Social intelligence is an attraction trigger in women.


 3. The Clothing Store Approach.Clothing store approach
What better place to find beautiful, fashionable women than in clothing stores?


Here’s how you do it.


In this situation, you go for a less direct approach than when you’re on the street or in a coffee shop.


Here are two ways to do it.


The first is to ask her opinion on something you want to buy for yourself.


You: â€œHi, can I ask you something? “


Her: â€œYes.”


You: â€œWhat do you think of this shirt with these jeans?”


Let her answer and sense her receptivity.


If she’s friendly, chat some more.


If she doesn’t seem friendly, thank her and continue shopping.


Or, you could give her advice on something SHE’S picking out.


You: â€œI would definitely go with the pink. That shade was made for you.”


After she answers, introduce yourself.


You: â€œMy name is Nick.”


Her: â€œMy name is Jenny.”


You: â€œNice to meet you, Jenny.” Shake her hand.


 4. Partner Dancing Clubs.Dancing class approach
Partner dancing clubs are a great place to learn to approach women for multiple reasons.


First of all, the ratio of women to man is fantastic.


And most men that are there are not good dancers, with the exception of the older men.


So, if you learn some basic moves, you’ll immediately stand out from your competition.


Second, women EXPECT you to approach them.


“Would you like to dance?” always gets you a yes.


Third, many times women will even approach you. You won’t even have to take the first step!


And fourth, dancing gives you a chance to immediately touch her and get comfortable with touching women.


 5. The Gym Approach.Gym approach
If you like fit and slim women, the gym is a great place to go.


Here’s how to start a conversation in the gym.


‘Would you mind spotting me for a set?”


After she spots you, you can thank her, and if she seems friendly you can continue the conversation.


 6. The Bookstore and Library Approach.Bookstore approach
Bookstores and libraries are great places to meet women.


First off, they are serendipity venues, which are always good places to meet girlfriend-type women.


And second, it allows you to shop for women based on your tastes.


For example, if you like women that are into art, go to the art section of the bookstore.


If you prefer women that are into personal development, then go to that section.


See what I mean?


Here’s a great universal opener that you can use.


“Do you want to know how it ends?”


Alternatively, you could say: â€œI read that book. It’s great. Do you want to know how it ends?”


It usually gets you a laugh.


And it works even better if the book she’s looking at is NOT a storybook—for example, a book about art or cooking.


By the way, you can use that same approach at the library.


 7. The Bar Approach.Bar approach
There are multiple ways to go about approaching women at a bar.


But going direct is pretty good because most men at bars use cheesy pickup lines.


So by going direct, you differentiate yourself from other men and you show you have BIG cojones. 

Chapter 4 - Lies

The 8 habits of extremely bitchy women

 

 

 

I met a barefaced bitch the other day. The pursed lips and incredulous gaze was the first clue. When she looked me up and down and swished her hair from side to side, I realised this chick was playing hardball.

I would like to tell you that I raised her hair flick with a stone-cold eye roll, but instead, I smiled even wider. Why do we try to ingratiate ourselves to people who clearly don't like us?

More to the point, how do women like her survive in this world?

I went to an all-girls school, where I was taught the entire curriculum of withering looks and passive-aggressive put-downs, but I thought Mean Girls didn't go on to become Mean Women. I thought the formative education at schools of this sort was learning that bitchiness retards one's evolution.

I thought these girls moved on with their lives, their spitfire side only rearing its ugly head when they meticulously planned their weddings, got a bad Shellac or engaged in drunken squabbles with the husbands they don't love. Apparently not.

It's been a long time since I've encountered a woman this mean-spirited, but I would like to thank her for inspiring me to write about the '8 Habits of Extremely Bitchy Women'.

 

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