How to Talk to Anyone (Junior Talker #2) by DeYtH Banger, Clive Cooper (best ebook reader for surface pro .TXT) đ
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Many men listen the wrong way.
When sheâs talking, theyâre nodding their head the whole time â all while thinking about the next question to ask.
Thatâs a big NO-NO.
Women can see that youâre not listening and that youâre nervous.
This kills attraction.
Instead, do the following.
Listen to what she says. Donât think of what to ask next.
While youâre listening, look in her eyes and build a picture of herâa picture that you continue building based on the information that sheâs giving you.
Once sheâs done talking, KEEP EYE CONTACT and think of your next comment or question.
Yes, you read that right: You only start thinking of what to say AFTER sheâs done talking, and you do it while you keep eye contact.
This will leave a natural pause in the conversation. In that pause, you will be thinking of what to say.
The fact that you keep eye contact while there is a pause (in which you are thinking of what to say) builds sexual tension.
This is my favorite conversation technique, because it builds sexual tension so incredibly naturally.
No need for flashy techniques or games. Just natural eye contact and a pause!
ConclusionConversations are a vital part of dating.
Without a conversation, you wonât be able to finish all the steps in the dating process.
Most men are too nervous during conversations because theyâve already decided that they want the woman. Women feel that and become uncomfortable themselves.
The first step in having a great conversation with women is to develop a set of requirements that you want them to meet.
Furthermore, most men donât âgetâ women.
They look for tricks and pick-up lines when they try to learn how to improve their dating life.
They donât realize that all the tricks in the world arenât going to help them if they donât know how to have a NATURAL, free-flowing conversation that builds both attraction and a connection.
Use the six steps outlined in this article during your next date. Youâll be amazed at the results you get!
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P.S.: Start saying all type of shit... stop with excusing yourself about when and how and why to say it... just go and say it...
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You: You suck biatch
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You: You are a cutie
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You: You are boring
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Just say what first comes in your mind... no overthinking game... anymore....
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Special Thanks to Nick Neeson
7 Conversation Starters That Work Like A Charm
By the worlds #1 dating coach for Introverted Men - Nick Neeson.
Whatâs the number-one reason introverted men donât succeed with women the way they want to and dream about?
Itâs because they donât even try!
In fact, tell me if this sounds familiarâŠ
When it comes to approaching and starting conversations with women, most introverts shiver and shake and sweat at the mere thought of it.
They worry about getting tongue-tied or disturbing her, or they compare themselves to better-looking guys in their heads.
In short, they fear rejection.
I get it.
If walking up to a woman isnât something that youâre used to, it can feel like too much of a challenge. To some, even an impossiblechallenge.
If thatâs the case, I want you to know itâs not your fault.
And youâre not alone.
Most introverted men have issues getting comfortable with the idea of striking up conversations with women they donât know.
After more than 20 years of coaching introverted men, I discovered that certain approaches work like magic.
They make approaching beautiful women and chatting them up so much easier and risk-free.
If my students could learn them, I know for sure YOU can too.
With that said, here are my top seven road-tested word-for-word conversation starters to get you incredible results approaching women.
1. The Street Approach.
This one works great when you see a woman walking on the street.
Donât approach her from the front, but first walk past her and then do a 180.
Start walking behind her, then gently put your fingers on her shoulder.
It should be as soft as a little tropical bird landing on her shoulder.
Sheâll turn around, and voila! You can deliver the next opener:
You: âExcuse me, Iâd like to tell you something.â
Her: âYes?â
You: âI literally just saw you and I think you have a very nice⊠energy⊠and I wanted to come and say hi⊠So, hi.â
As you can see, itâs a compliment, but itâs a low investment compliment. I said, âYou have a very nice energy.â I didnât say, âYou are SOOO BEAUTIFULâ.
Low investment compliments work much better than over-the-top compliments.
2. The Coffee Shop Approach.
Just like the street, this is a perfect venue to approach women because of its serendipity effect.
All women have dreamed about being approached in serendipity venues. Itâs a fantasy they have from romantic comedies.
Hereâs how to do it.
You just walk up to her and you say the exact same thing as you would on the street.
You: âHi, excuse me. Iâd like to tell you something.â
Her: âYes?â
You: âI just noticed you from over there and I think you have a very nice energy. And I wanted to come and say hi. So, hi.â
As you can see, itâs the same opener, but hereâs whatâs crucial to do IMMEDIATELY after that opener.
You have to immediately let her know that you wonât stay there if she doesnât want you to.
The reason you do this is because the situation is different from the street.
On the street, she can just walk away if she feels uncomfortable, so thereâs less pressure.
But in a coffee shop, she canât just walk away. I mean, sheâs sitting there drinking something. Maybe sheâs waiting for her boyfriend.
If you just keep talking to her in that situation and she doesnât like it, sheâll feel very uncomfortable because she canât just get up and leave.
Therefore, you immediately say the following after your opener: âHey, listen, if you feel uncomfortable with me talking to you here, just tell me and Iâll leave. Are you ok?
By doing that, you give her a way out if she wants one.
You also build attraction by doing so. Thatâs because you showed social intelligence.
Social intelligence is an attraction trigger in women.
3. The Clothing Store Approach.
What better place to find beautiful, fashionable women than in clothing stores?
Hereâs how you do it.
In this situation, you go for a less direct approach than when youâre on the street or in a coffee shop.
Here are two ways to do it.
The first is to ask her opinion on something you want to buy for yourself.
You: âHi, can I ask you something? â
Her: âYes.â
You: âWhat do you think of this shirt with these jeans?â
Let her answer and sense her receptivity.
If sheâs friendly, chat some more.
If she doesnât seem friendly, thank her and continue shopping.
Or, you could give her advice on something SHEâS picking out.
You: âI would definitely go with the pink. That shade was made for you.â
After she answers, introduce yourself.
You: âMy name is Nick.â
Her: âMy name is Jenny.â
You: âNice to meet you, Jenny.â Shake her hand.
4. Partner Dancing Clubs.
Partner dancing clubs are a great place to learn to approach women for multiple reasons.
First of all, the ratio of women to man is fantastic.
And most men that are there are not good dancers, with the exception of the older men.
So, if you learn some basic moves, youâll immediately stand out from your competition.
Second, women EXPECT you to approach them.
âWould you like to dance?â always gets you a yes.
Third, many times women will even approach you. You wonât even have to take the first step!
And fourth, dancing gives you a chance to immediately touch her and get comfortable with touching women.
5. The Gym Approach.
If you like fit and slim women, the gym is a great place to go.
Hereâs how to start a conversation in the gym.
âWould you mind spotting me for a set?â
After she spots you, you can thank her, and if she seems friendly you can continue the conversation.
6. The Bookstore and Library Approach.
Bookstores and libraries are great places to meet women.
First off, they are serendipity venues, which are always good places to meet girlfriend-type women.
And second, it allows you to shop for women based on your tastes.
For example, if you like women that are into art, go to the art section of the bookstore.
If you prefer women that are into personal development, then go to that section.
See what I mean?
Hereâs a great universal opener that you can use.
âDo you want to know how it ends?â
Alternatively, you could say: âI read that book. Itâs great. Do you want to know how it ends?â
It usually gets you a laugh.
And it works even better if the book sheâs looking at is NOT a storybookâfor example, a book about art or cooking.
By the way, you can use that same approach at the library.
7. The Bar Approach.
There are multiple ways to go about approaching women at a bar.
But going direct is pretty good because most men at bars use cheesy pickup lines.
So by going direct, you differentiate yourself from other men and you show you have BIG cojones.
The 8 habits of extremely bitchy women
I met a barefaced bitch the other day. The pursed lips and incredulous gaze was the first clue. When she looked me up and down and swished her hair from side to side, I realised this chick was playing hardball.
I would like to tell you that I raised her hair flick with a stone-cold eye roll, but instead, I smiled even wider. Why do we try to ingratiate ourselves to people who clearly don't like us?
More to the point, how do women like her survive in this world?
I went to an all-girls school, where I was taught the entire curriculum of withering looks and passive-aggressive put-downs, but I thought Mean Girls didn't go on to become Mean Women. I thought the formative education at schools of this sort was learning that bitchiness retards one's evolution.
I thought these girls moved on with their lives, their spitfire side only rearing its ugly head when they meticulously planned their weddings, got a bad Shellac or engaged in drunken squabbles with the husbands they don't love. Apparently not.
It's been a long time since I've encountered a woman this mean-spirited, but I would like to thank her for inspiring me to write about the '8 Habits of Extremely Bitchy Women'.
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