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As for misunderstanding, for example, various questions of misunderstanding arise , and these are questions that, by the way, probably took place in everyone’s personal life, for example, about an unsuccessful job interview: why didn’t I pass the interview, and they didn’t take me to work? As a rule, the majority thinks to the detriment of their own pride, sort of like “maybe they considered me not competent ” or something else in that regard. Many people think so, but it turns out to be simpler - these many may have been simply afraid to be hired by employers who had problems with paying potential candidates for the job they offer (there are, of course, other reasons when they didn’t hire, for example, if a man takes a woman to work, it happens that he needs her to be unmarried, if she is a woman, then the man should not be married), in other words, from employers to whom those who did not take an interview to work, there was no money to issue salaries . This is one of the reasons for the refusal of employment - the employer realized that the candidate is “competent” and “thoughtful”, and there will be problems with him when it comes to salaries.
As it turns out, they were afraid to take work because those who did not go through the interview asked specific questions regarding the remuneration of their work, how much, when, etc. To whom did such employers do worse - to those who were refused employment? No, of course, only the self-esteem of those who were refused employment was hurt, and the lack of information that they were not hired due to specific questions that they asked during an interview with the employer or his representative, and not because of their possible incompetence. Employers have done well to job seekers only by the fact that they did not lose time in vain by working for them. As a rule, representatives of reputable firms are not afraid of this state of affairs; they are not afraid of their questions regarding the size of wages and wage conditions.
Continuing the topic of secret manipulation, or rather, even secret motivation, you can also point out that many people cover up their true goals with something - they go to the gym to get to know someone, for example, from the opposite sex, and physical perfection secondarily, they quit their job because of some reasons, but hide behind others, talk about friendship to someone, and from the one to whom they inspire it, they want to have something in material terms or give it to someone who inspired their myth of friendship any other topics either id ei, and they themselves, until the object wakes up from suggestions, use it to their advantage. Representatives of organizations called sectarian (a sect is probably something like what American Jim Jones organized in his time, about 800 people committed suicide in it ), find bandits and drunkards who have gone down and become confused in their lives, lead they are fed into their organizations, fed, watered for free, meet all these comrades with the most warmth and kindness, provide shelter, devote to their faith, then it turns out that kindness was not just that, and it will pay off well when the one they brought selling his I ’ll give the apartment and give the money, or, so to speak, socially adapt and go to work, after which part of the salary will be given to the leader of the organization, kind of like a donation, is it secret motivation, but from a different perspective?
Some people are inclined towards everything they hear with maximum confidence (the effect when someone’s arguments are above the facts ), whether any information comes from the media or from a specific person, these people have no criticality in the perception of what they hear.
The sale of an apartment and the transfer of the proceeds of money for it to the leader of what is considered a sect, this is one of those cases when they believe in what they have inspired, and accordingly those who wanted to achieve something by suggestions, got theirs from who they processed by suggestions, therefore it is important to know who wants what from you and not to be disoriented in these matters, otherwise the chances of losing are very high.
Basically, deception, which is tactfully sometimes called secret motivation, and in general people who want too much from life are prone to manipulation (psychological science says that people who have signs of psychopathy like to manipulate people). They also say that those who are easily given in childhood tend to manipulate others, and they want to extend this pleasure as adults, by the way, they have already put greed in the category of mental illnesses, and they also want to treat greed - all behaviors that are uncomfortable for society soon, probably, they will be included in the category of mental disorders and will be offered to treat.
The world through the Internet and various media has become like a big village - can’t you hide anything? Is objective knowledge and objective information available not only to those who are called the elite? Is a rich person who does not have loans taken from a bank? Only those who are jealous of what is necessary for the one to whom they envy, and what they do not have, if it is not necessary, then there is no envy? Some people who drive expensive cars are people who are addicted to "window dressing" because it cannot be explained differently when you need to pay a loan for an expensive car, but there is nothing to eat at home? Everyone runs after the hormone of pleasure, is everything rationally invented by those who created us - endorphin control? Some buy endorphins instead of a car? Going against the tide so as not to be commonplace? There are places where some people can get endorphins, but there are places where they can't - why some people do what is called window dressing, buy expensive cars, saving money on food, go to war, they don’t want to be commonplace, don’t want to go to work to the factory, to the construction site, since for them it seems like a monotonous and not ambitious action, scarce on endorphins?
“... like writing letters from America, they have a pool and Mercedes, as you ask for a dollar, so they have ...” - the words of Boris (Oleg Yankovsky), one of the heroes of the film “Passport” (1990, France , USSR, Austria, director Georgy Danelia).
Everyone is inclined to manipulate in everyday life in different ways, some put photos on the background of someone else’s expensive SUV or on the background of their SUV, taken on credit, which has not yet been paid - all this is done to demonstrate success, although it happens that the car is expensive, but there is nothing to eat at home, since you need to pay a loan for it, again.
For some who have an expensive car or an elite house, indeed 90% of the budget goes to pay for the loan given by the bank, and according to the media, in Russia every 10 cars are taken on credit, so you should not burn from what is called envy when you see someone has an expensive car. According to a friend’s stories, one comrade saved money for a “lupato” Mercedes, didn’t give money to his wife and two children, and, moreover, he went to her place to eat groceries bought for her money - that’s how expensive things come from some people, they are bought on credit either through opportunism and using people for their own purposes.
The author of this work has a friend who, in her words, has a large house that belongs to her, but asks her boyfriends to buy underwear - she probably also abstained because of the loan that you have to pay for the house, these are soap bubbles ? And one more story that a friend told that she met a man who, in his words, has his own house and car (he has a house and a car, but it is not known whether they belong to him, because no one saw the documents about the law property, and we seem to be critical people - doubting everything, like investigators, until we see the “proof” in the form of the same documents). He rushed her to a cafe so that she would make less orders, and even when she wanted to buy mineral water, he told her that she would drink water at his house - this is probably the case when you need to pay loans and there is nothing to eat at home, but on the other hand, “show-offs” and “window dressing” bring their dividends in the form of endorphins, when such people think that they are considered rich by others. Another girl, working as a nurse, said that one man who drove her on an expensive SUV asked her (to a simple nurse) to lend him $ 100 to pay the workers.
So, as already probably mentioned, a person who wants a lot of life has a penchant for manipulation, but cannot achieve this through his intellect, laziness or lack of knowledge, or for other reasons, and therefore you have to get out and achieve your ambitious and ambitious goals, and sometimes just livelihoods through this secret motivation.
A manipulator is a person who, with the help of words and actions, can control the biochemistry of the brain of both his own and another person, and everyone is a manipulator, since the word of any person causes various chemical processes in the body?
They say that you need to behave very carefully when you leave your home on the street, you can immediately put a person in the category of a neurochemist, since when he leaves the house he starts to communicate with people, and his words or actions can cause various biochemical processes in the brain. After all, it’s not without reason that with the help of just a word or action you can cause a different reaction in a person, for example: when you want to boast about your victories on the love front, some recommend telling them to use the phrase “Of course, I’m not Alain Delon, but the girl came to me from afar and spent $ 100 on fuel. ” By pronouncing the phrase “I, of course, am not Alain Delon,” self-praise is removed from the alleged tension and irritation of someone who praises about his love victories, as he may feel inferior to you. You can tell a girl when she tells someone about her achievements in terms of love victories, “Of course, I’m not Marilyn Monroe, but he came to me from afar, spending $ 100 on fuel”, they say, look, what I or what I am, for my sake people parted with money. Well, these examples are at the lyric level, but in fact, careless words or actions can lead to unpleasant consequences, so once again we remind ourselves that, when you go out onto the street, you need to be vigilant?
There is no such thing that one is right, another is duty in the modern civilized countries, even laws are adopted by the government on the basis of the psychological component of the population and taking into account traditions that also stem from the same psychological component. The law, for example, administrative, prohibits the manifestation of behavior that causes irritation, embarrassment, disgust, excitement or fear in most people, for example: why can not you “pee” on the street or why you can’t walk drunk on the street? Because for others it can cause irritation or excitement, and also irritation or excitement, embarrassment or disgust can cause, when some citizens activate the so-called animal feelings and instincts in a public place, the instinct of reproduction, for example. Now more and more people are taking part in the creation of laws, the authorities are only realizing them, are laws also being transformed depending on the needs of society?
T olerantnost - this is when you need to endure something or someone? Once
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